Live-In Nanny with ADHD / Sensory Processing Experience (Southampton, NY)

Location: Southampton, NY
Compensation: $55++ per hour
Commitment: Full-time, long-term, live-in
Schedule: Monday–Friday, split shift — 6:30am–8:30am and 2:00pm–8:00pm, with household tasks midday
Guaranteed Hours: 40 hours Guaranteed
Start Date: October 1st

Position Overview

A warm, engaged family in Southampton, NY is seeking a dedicated live-in nanny for their three children (ages 8, 6, and 4; pre-K, first, and third grade) for a true long-term role. The family travels frequently, and the nanny will travel with them during school vacations. One child (age 6) has sensory processing needs and possible ADHD; hands-on experience supporting a child with these needs is essential, along with helping the siblings navigate that dynamic. The home is set up to support him, including a dedicated OT/sensory space, and thrives on structure and active engagement. The nanny is supported by an au pair and separate housekeeping staff, so no deep cleaning is involved. The right candidate — warm, engaging, professional, and genuinely invested in the children — is the top priority.

Benefits

• Private bedroom and private bathroom
• Company car provided for working hours; parking available for a personal vehicle
• Open to Health Care stipend
• All travel expenses paid, plus full compensation while traveling with the family
• 2 weeks paid vacation (one week of the family's choosing, one of the nanny's)
• 3–5 paid personal/sick days
• All major holidays paid and off

Responsibilities

• Provide attentive, structured care for three children (ages 8, 6, and 4)
• Support the 6-year-old's sensory and attention-related needs through structure and engagement, and help the siblings navigate that dynamic
• Manage school-day logistics, including morning and evening routines and drop-offs/pick-ups
• Meal prep and grocery shopping
• Light housekeeping and family admin (no deep cleaning)
• Manage the children's clothing — tracking sizes, handling outgrown items, and processing returns
• Handle household tasks during midday downtime between the AM and PM shifts
• Travel with the family during school vacations
• Occasional Sunday evening support as needed

Requirements

• Hands-on experience supporting a child with sensory processing needs and/or ADHD
• Valid driver's license and confident driving
• Valid passport for family travel
• Committed to a long-term, live-in role
• Comfortable in a home with a pool
• CPR / First Aid Certified
• Must be able to provide 3–5 professional references

Placement Category: Domestic Staff
This is a full time position
Live-In?: Full Time Live-In
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